Thank you everyone for your replies!
@ Voxie (punctuated by namlot), I completely forgot about the automatic bot slot fill. That makes a HUGE difference to the situation. All the games that I have had negative experiences with are bot-less. Bot A.I. is never as good as humans, but it does help.
@ AnthonyDa, 360 L4D (2) and TF2 all support drop-in, drop-out gameplay. You remind me of something important. The “matchmaking” and “hosting” of TF2 for the 360 is very reminiscent of PC games in general, and the frequent quitting and rejoining of players is hardly felt. I have experienced this, and remember being surprised by it. Auto-balance is on, and the game just continues. Unless you are looking for it, you may not even notice the changes in roster. L4D1 and 2 are similar, except that with the smaller numbers and the incredible importance of working together, the game degenerates very rapidly unless someone jumps in very quickly. I am hopeful that whenever the update drops to the 360, the Special Infected bot addition will take care of this.
[QUOTE=light_sh4v0r;213166]In a game like this on pub level play there is no reason to penalize something like this.
Games like League of Legends DO penalise leavers, but only if you leave AND DO NOT RETURN before teh game ends. In this game being 1 man down is an instant loss unless he was shit and the entire other team is. The penalty means you get no xp for that match and a counter next to your name showing your leaves. That is all, and it’s a good system imo. It gives you a bad reputation, but it doesn’t stop you from doing it again.[/QUOTE]
Having an ever-present counter next to your name indicating your leaves (or even your stay:leave ratio) would probably almost satisfy me. If I were hosting the room, I could just immediately boot the quitter before the game even started.
For those of you who don’t play console, I guess I would suggest that you think of the most irritating (i.e., FUN-wrecking) thing that happens to you when playing your PC games. Then, think that you had no power to change it. And, that sometimes you might spend a whole hour trying to play your favorite game, but because of others’ behaviour, you only got to play 5 minutes of the game the way it was intended to be played. That is what I am talking about.