adam u started the thread but ur not a mod - dont act like one.
this isnt the United Nations Security Council round table so stop with the “off topic” threats.
Its a discussion in general and it might meander about a bit while it gets where its going. Yes that might be frustrating if u started the topic - and - u wanted it to go in another direction to where it seems to be going.
Here is a tip: communication is about more than one and sometimes u end up in a better place even if it wasnt where u thought u would be ending up