Don’t really see the problem here. Even if the medic gets you up and you die you’re just back to where you were anyway. This IMO is a matter of teamwork and what makes a good medic versus a not so good one, changing the game to take that away from the medic would be some serious dumbing down of the medic role.
As for revive protection. Also not really taken with that either. So you run into the enemy cross fire, get justly shot, happily revived and then you can scamper back somewhere safe to heal up while the enemy team are powerless.